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Little Brown Dress

Little Brown Dress

When I free my body from its clothes, from all their buttons, belts, and laces, it seems to me that my soul takes a deeper, freer breath. — August Strindberg My arms were trapped above my ...

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Hard-Drive Havoc

Hard-Drive Havoc

User, n. The word computer professionals use when they mean “idiot.” — Dave Barry The initial symptoms of a massive failure, such as a heart attack or stroke — a sore arm, a bit of ...

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Vest-ment

Vest-ment

Be nice to nerds. Chances are you’ll end up working for one. — Bill Gates David’s brother Dana and I stood side by side, surveying the items arranged on his mother’s kitchen table. At one ...

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Daddy's Girls

Daddy's Girls

Old as she was, she still missed her daddy sometimes. — Gloria Naylor Like a good amateur psychologist, when I encounter a hot mess of ... More Comments (6)

Panty Party

Panty Party

Brevity is the soul of lingerie. — Dorothy Parker Most of the “lingerie parties” I’ve attended have featured women arriving in their finest lace or ... More Comments (8)

Mac Down

Mac Down

The poets have been mysteriously silent on the subject of cheese. — G.K. Chesterton It was not an invitation — it was a challenge. It ... More Comments (7)

Legally Blind

Legally Blind

Men seldom make passes at girls who wear glasses. — Dorothy Parker When I was six years old I had an imaginary friend named Jesus. ... More Comments (9)

Tea High

Tea High

Tea to the English is really a picnic indoors. — Alice Walker Mom had been exercising her pinkie for three days. She told me the ... More Comments (7)

A Diva Walks into a Bar...

A Diva Walks into a Bar...

A good writer is not, per se, a good book critic. No more so than a good drunk is automatically a good bartender. — Jim ... More Comments (2)

Big Girl Outing

Big Girl Outing

If sisters were free to express how they really feel, parents would hear this: “Give me all the attention and all the toys and send ... More Comments (5)

Heaven and Hell

Heaven and Hell

Life is divided into the horrible and the miserable. — Woody Allen I led David to the nose of the ferry — it was a ... More Comments (7)

The Little One

The Little One

Families with babies and families without babies are sorry for each other. — Ed Howe The gestation period had only been three months — from ... More Comments (13)

Techno-laziness

Techno-laziness

We are living in a world today where lemonade is made from artificial flavors and furniture polish is made from real lemons. — Alfred E. ... More Comments (3)

My Kryptonite

My Kryptonite

For every man there exists a bait which he cannot resist swallowing. — Friedrich Nietzsche It was a cruel thing to do, but I don’t ... More Comments (4)

Neighborly Love

Neighborly Love

While the spirit of neighborliness was important on the frontier because neighbors were so few, it is even more important now because our neighbors are ... More Comments (4)

Hot Stuff

Hot Stuff

Tell me what you eat, I’ll tell you who you are. — Anthelme Brillat-Savarin I was an occasional user. At least that’s what I told ... More Comments (6)

Bruise-skis

Bruise-skis

I had a cold, wet, numb butt; it was nice because I was getting hot. — Heather, Barbarella’s sister Our absurd attempt to produce fire ... More Comments (7)

Shore Stop

Shore Stop

Fishing is boring, unless you catch an actual fish, and then it is disgusting. — Dave Barry The way my friend Jen tells it, her ... More Comments (7)

Psycho Analysis

Psycho Analysis

I envy paranoids; they actually feel people are paying attention to them. — Susan Sontag I didn’t want to see the doctor. I never do. ... More Comments (7)

The Secret

The Secret

The Secret is not just a moronic hymn to greed and selfishness; it nastily suggests that victims of catastrophe are the authors of their misfortunes. ... More Comments (11)

Conceptual Cuisine

Conceptual Cuisine

I call it performance art, but my friend Ariel calls it wasting time. History will decide. — Steve Martin as Harris in L.A. Story To ... More Comments (3)

Mini Me

Mini Me

The car has become a secular sanctuary for the individual, his shrine to the self, his mobile Walden Pond. — Edward McDonagh One damp December ... More Comments (4)

Tale of Two Brothers

Tale of Two Brothers

Our siblings. They resemble us just enough to make all their differences confusing, and no matter what we choose to make of this, we are ... More Comments (3)

Matters of the Heart

Matters of the Heart

When I look at my hands and in my heart, I see stress as Lady Macbeth saw blood. — Berri Clove I was going to ... More Comments (6)

Jane's Dream

Jane's Dream

The difference between perseverance and obstinacy is that one comes from a strong will, and the other from a strong won’t. — Henry Ward Beecher ... More Comments (4)

Dis-Ativan-tage

Dis-Ativan-tage

Neurosis is always a substitute for legitimate suffering. — Carl Jung A ladybug ambled across my absentee ballot and paused, seemingly undecided between YES and ... More Comments (6)

Hotel Fetish

Hotel Fetish

It is impossible to overdo luxury. — French Proverb The orange light reflecting off the water’s surface slowly transformed to red. “You should have put ... More Comments (4)

Party Tricks

Party Tricks

When the wine goes in, strange things come out. — Johann Christoph Friedrich von Schiller David opened a second bottle of wine and circled the ... More Comments (2)

Turn Off

Turn Off

Lo! Men have become the tools of their tools. — Henry David Thoreau I remember my first time like it was yesterday. My heart beat ... More Post a comment

Merry Tuesday

Merry Tuesday

From a commercial point of view, if Christmas did not exist it would be necessary to invent it. — Katharine Whitehorn He didn’t have to ... More Comments (3)

Guys Gone Wild

Guys Gone Wild

I am leaving the town to the invaders: increasingly numerous, mediocre, dirty, badly behaved, shameless tourists. -- Brigitte Bardot W e told our friends we ... More Post a comment

Bad Santa

Bad Santa

Love looks forward hate looks back, anxiety has eyes all over its head. -- Mignon McLaughlin Everything had been going so well. The Seattle sky ... More Post a comment

Comet Courtesy

Comet Courtesy

The road to Hell is paved with good intentions. -- English proverb I was yanked into consciousness -- adrenaline tensed my muscles for fight or ... More Post a comment

Turkey Tempest

Turkey Tempest

Turkey, n. A large bird whose flesh when eaten on certain religious anniversaries has the peculiar property of attesting piety and gratitude. Incidentally, it is ... More Post a comment

Daddy Dogma

Daddy Dogma

There are no facts, only interpretations. -- Friedrich Nietzsche 'You want some eggs with that ketchup?" "Very funny, Four-Eyes," Dad said, using the nickname he ... More Post a comment

Breast Defense

Breast Defense

Were not I thine only nurse, I would say thou hadst suck'd wisdom from thy teat. -- William Shakespeare I was standing in the kitchen, ... More Post a comment

American Woman

American Woman

There is nothing wrong with America that cannot be cured by what is right with America. -- Bill Clinton Visiting four countries over the span ... More Post a comment

Non Capisco

Non Capisco

I speak two languages, Body and English. -- Mae West Exposed as I was to the elements, I was relieved it wasn't raining, but I ... More Post a comment

Swede Life

Swede Life

There is no such thing as a weird human being; it's just that some people require more understanding than others.-- Tom Robbins I gazed out ... More Post a comment

Roxanne

Roxanne

Grown men should not be having sex with prostitutes unless they are married to them. -- Jerry Falwell Braced against the elements with newly acquired ... More Post a comment

French Fashionista

French Fashionista

Clothes make the man. Naked people have little or no influence on society. -- Mark Twain She looked amused. Or terrified. It was hard to ... More Post a comment

French Food

French Food

To the sober person, adventurous conduct seems insanity. -- Aristotle I awoke to the same rhythmic rocking that had lulled me to sleep seven hours ... More Post a comment

Stairway to Hell

Stairway to Hell

When preparing to travel, lay out all your clothes and all your money. Then take half the clothes and twice the money. -- Susan Heller ... More Comment (1)

Peripathetic

Peripathetic

The pain passes, but the beauty remains. -- Pierre-Auguste Renoir 'C heck out the woman in the red shirt three sizes too small and the ... More Post a comment

American Hero

American Hero

When you're born, you get a ticket to the freak show. When you're born in America, you get a front row seat. -- George Carlin ... More Post a comment

Toy Story

Toys were lots of fun before they became capitalist tools. -- Beth Copeland Vargo The thermostat read 85, but it felt more like 100. Jen ... More Post a comment

Characters

When I'm good I'm very, very good, but when I'm bad I'm better. -- Mae West I sensed the conversation was drawing to a close, ... More Post a comment

Gym Rats

An hour of basketball feels like 15 minutes. An hour on a treadmill feels like a weekend in traffic school. -- David Walters I was ... More Post a comment

Mother of the Bride

The moments of happiness we enjoy take us by surprise. It is not that we seize them, but that they seize us. -- Ashley Montagu ... More Post a comment

Lawfully Wedded

Marriage is a ghastly public confession of a strictly private intention. -- Ian Hay 'H ey, beh beh!" I called out, as I often do ... More Post a comment

Horse Sense

A horse which stops dead just before a jump and thus propels its rider into a graceful arc provides a splendid excuse for general merriment. ... More Post a comment

Care Package

Absence is to love as wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small and kindles the great. -- Roger De Bussy-Rabutin I was reluctant to ... More Post a comment

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