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My Perfect Sunday

My Perfect Sunday

With few Christians in Japan, Sunday is not a day of worship. It is, however, the only day most people have with their family. Until a couple of years ago, students had school on Saturdays and ...

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The Bigger Family

The Bigger Family

One of the biggest differences I find in raising a family in Japan is that the concept of family is different from what I am used to. In Canada, the nuclear family reigns supreme, but ...

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The Spinster

The Spinster

All my adolescence I spent here. In Mauritius. This island is more home to me than any other place I’ve been. Not that I prefer it or anything of that sort but in the sense ...

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The Oil War

The Oil War

My brother is an addict. He contaminated me. I’ve gotten over it. Not he. His eyes are bloodshot. His fingers twitch all the time. He ... More Comments (5)

Turkish Barbers

Turkish Barbers

There are two barbershops on Camp Fallujah, about a ten-minute walk apart. One — run by a Jordanian — is located inside the post exchange ... More Comment (1)

It's Hard to Leave

It's Hard to Leave

I scanned the line of buses that had just arrived at the stop through my too-big designer rip-off sunglasses that let me pass for Italian ... More Post a comment

Tempo Italiano

Tempo Italiano

Italians run late; they just do. In my nine months here, I have been trying to figure out if this is due to a relaxed ... More Post a comment

In Memoriam

In Memoriam

The ceremony will begin in five minutes. Rows of metal foldout chairs are arranged neatly in the center of a long rectangular room. At the ... More Post a comment

The Border

The Border

The paved road stops at Al Qaim, a military base in northwestern Al Anbar province. Another 40 kilometers further along muddy and half-formed paths is ... More Post a comment

Battle for Hearts and Stomachs

Battle for Hearts and Stomachs

Young boys are the same the world over. In no other demographic slice of humanity do you see such an interesting mix of innocence, persistence, ... More Post a comment

AFN

AFN

The military is not as unified as it may seem. But for those who think they know the true divide within our armed forces, take ... More Post a comment

Looking Deadly

Looking Deadly

When you think of a hero — a soldier, firefighter, or Marine — what image pops into your head? Do you think of a shaved ... More Post a comment

Coalition Forces

Coalition Forces

When a phrase is constantly used over time to the same audience, it ends up losing some of its original significance. So when we first ... More Post a comment

Saying Goodbye

Saying Goodbye

Over the span of a normal lifetime, how often do you see a loved one off for a trip? A long trip? A long and ... More Post a comment

A Smile from a Veil

A Smile from a Veil

I am dumb when it comes to girls. My friends are quite good at involvement with them, but their company hasn’t had a great deal ... More Post a comment

Peshawar or Bust

Peshawar or Bust

Four years back, while I was living in Tarbela Dam, a friend of mine asked me to accompany him to have his computer upgraded. I ... More Post a comment

Armchair Obstetrician

Armchair Obstetrician

I am not a “people person.” Much as I would like to say that getting pregnant with Violet has morphed me into a kinder, gentler ... More Comment (1)

My Little Parasite

My Little Parasite

Every year, my husband and I look forward to Halloween. We plan for months in advance to make sure that we have cool (though sometimes ... More Post a comment

Manav Desh in Imphal, India

Manav Desh in Imphal, India

Adorned in traditional attires of a groom, my friend, you look handsome, and your bride so elegant. The mandap, garland in bright yellow marigolds, the ... More Post a comment

Manav Desh in Imphal, India

Manav Desh in Imphal, India

Hours grew into days, days into weeks, weeks into months, and yet time gives me the illusion that it was just a few days ago ... More Comment (1)

Ginger in Nigeria

Ginger in Nigeria

Redefining Chaos Theory On a recent trip to Italy, I met an Israeli from Jerusalem whom I asked how many suicide bomb blasts he had ... More Post a comment

Ginger in Nigeria

Ginger in Nigeria

Why I can't Fly! Flying in airplanes used to be one of my greatest delights. Taking off and landing were my favorite parts (only later ... More Post a comment

Schoolyard scuffle

Schoolyard scuffle

Dear Noah, It was sprinkling rain when I went to pick you up from school. As I came around the corner the principal came out ... More Post a comment

Melinda in Greenville, Ohio

Melinda in Greenville, Ohio

Moving Day Dear Noah, You found out today that the girls next door are moving. You are very upset about this. You told me you ... More Post a comment

M.P.J. in Upstate New York

M.P.J. in Upstate New York

My Son Doesn't Eat My six-year-old son is autistic, and like many autistic people -- children and adults -- eating is difficult for him. My ... More Post a comment

M.P.J. in Upstate New York

M.P.J. in Upstate New York

I trust My husband, Mark, is a sex addict. Four years ago, before he came clean about his sex addiction and started his recovery, I ... More Post a comment

Junky's Wife in Charlotte, North Carolina

Junky's Wife in Charlotte, North Carolina

Ramen Mmmmm. Poverty food. Tonight's dinner will be Ramen, that freeze-dried Eastern delicacy, flavor "Oriental." I will transport myself into the mystical realm of the ... More Post a comment

Junky's Wife in Charlotte, North Carolina

Junky's Wife in Charlotte, North Carolina

Why I don't leave When our eyes met, I felt that I was growing pale. A curious sensation of terror came over me. I knew ... More Post a comment

Junky's Wife in Charlotte, North Carolina

Junky's Wife in Charlotte, North Carolina

The Junky's Wife Explained When I was in my late teens and early 20s, I was a spectacular train wreck. I used coke, a lot, ... More Post a comment

Junky's Wife in Charlotte, North Carolina

Junky's Wife in Charlotte, North Carolina

A Spoon He called and asked me to bring him a pair of shorts, his sketch pad, a soda, and something to eat. He made ... More Post a comment

Melissa Plaut in New York City

Melissa Plaut in New York City

I Hate Second Avenue I went back to driving a cab after a hiatus of six months. When I showed up at the garage for ... More Post a comment

Melissa Plaut in New York City

Melissa Plaut in New York City

Something in the Air After sitting in the taxi lot at LaGuardia Airport for an hour, I got a fare back to the very slow ... More Post a comment

Melissa Plaut in New York City

Melissa Plaut in New York City

The Five-Nine The 59th Street Bridge was a wreck. I knew because I called a few of my taxi buddies one night while they were ... More Post a comment

Claire Litton in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania

Claire Litton in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania

Flashbulb anticipation The Jonestown massacre was responsible for my growing up bereft of popular culture. Not because I was orphaned by Kool Aid--drinking parents or ... More Post a comment

Claire Litton in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania

My Body is my paintbrush Everyone asks the question: "How much money do you make as a professional belly dancer?" The "baby" belly dancers want ... More Post a comment

Melissa Plaut in New York City

Sex Drive I was having another long, disjointed night, which is normal when you drive a yellow cab in New York City. But this night ... More Post a comment

Claire Litton in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania

Art makes me uncomfortable So, a guy -- let's call him Mr. Teacher -- at the school where I often pose nude for figure-drawing classes ... More Post a comment

Claire Litton in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania

Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania There's a rumor circulating among my friends that you can't be popular in the belly-dance scene unless you "party." Not like the Nevada ... More Post a comment

Dimitrios Kyranas in Athens, Greece

The Catch On one of the many beautiful -- thanks to global warming -- winter mornings, I decided to take the bus to university. My ... More Post a comment

Dimitrios Kyranas in Athens, Greece

Flashback Yesterday afternoon I looked at photos of my high school graduation. After going through them, I could not help proceeding to the album's following ... More Post a comment

Dimitrios Kyranas in Athens, Greece

Spatiotemporal Unfairness The other day I leisurely rode the escalators of the central subway station of Athens, at Syntagma (Constitution) Square, situated right in front ... More Post a comment

Dimitrios Kyranas in Athens, Greece

A Greek capital crime I was strolling this afternoon along the wide avenues that crisscross the center of Athens, the Greek capital, perusing its wonderful ... More Post a comment

Dimitrios Kyranas in Athens, Greece

The Fake Greek It all began in late 1994: I realized that my English was superior to that of my schoolmates, all of whom had ... More Post a comment

Brian M. Palmer in Long Beach

Sick haircut, dude! Some time ago, a heavily tanned, broad-shouldered, six-foot-tall baseball player from Texas, who used the word "dude" to refer to males and ... More Post a comment

Brian M. Palmer in Long Beach

Fifteen feet from Natalie My interest in Natalie Portman began when I saw a trailer for Mars Attacks . I was 16. I didn't know ... More Post a comment

Brian M. Palmer in Long Beach

Nukkles I would have never guessed that the massage of my life would be at the hands of an elderly entrepreneur suffering from a case ... More Post a comment

Brian M. Palmer in Long Beach

Kickboxing's Fine Print Thinking over my years, there've been a few things that I regret doing. For instance, that night I drank 11 beers in ... More Post a comment

Helen Leggatt In Canterbury, New Zealand

Style on a lifestyle block? I got told off last week...by a chicken. I'd had a particularly late night and hadn't climbed out from under ... More Post a comment

Helen Leggatt In Canterbury, New Zealand

May Contain Nuts "It's the summer months, and your children will be outdoors playing more often and could seriously hurt themselves." This announcement remains ingrained ... More Post a comment

Helen Leggatt In Canterbury, New Zealand

There's no place like home I remember pressing my nose against the window as we flew over the Southern Alps of the South Island of ... More Post a comment

Helen Leggatt In Canterbury, New Zealand

Food for thought New Zealand supermarkets are devoid of the range of TV dinners and pasta sauces that are the staples of their British counterparts. ... More Post a comment

Medicine Soldier In Iraq

Sleep Monster As a traditional guardsman, I have to live a dual life and with the consequences of doing so. Going from a normal work ... More Post a comment

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